Talk

Qiao Lan felt a sudden surge of indescribable anger.

But Ji Su is still going strong.

"If you find this question a bit difficult, we can start with a simpler initial question and leave the mentally ill population out of the discussion for a moment, and let's discuss whether or not people with disabilities can have love of their own."

This problem is much simpler than it was before.

When Ji Su said that, someone answered immediately.

"There is love for the handicapped because love knows no age, no color, no race. And it certainly doesn't discriminate between the healthy and the handicapped!"

"Why not, disabled people have feelings and thoughts too. Why can't they have love?"

In a rare moment of unanimity, we all agreed that there was no need to discuss the issue at all.

Ji Su smiled, not surprised at all, "It's good that people think that way, you can't be prejudiced against anyone, but today we're going to talk about something more realistic, so I'll be more direct and ask, since you all say that, would you be okay with a boyfriend or girlfriend who has a disability?"

The moment these words came out, the group of people who had just been fighting to speak were all mute.

People talk a lot about other people, but when it comes to themselves they get in the way, and it took a long time before someone spoke up, and Qiao Lan saw that it was Luo Man.

Luo Man thought about it and said, "If it's something I really like, it doesn't matter if I'm disabled."

"You don't have connections, what about your parent's, what about your friends, what about the rest of the people who will be out in the world later on?"

Ji Su said one sentence to Luo Man back, Luo Man was stunned, did not say anything.

But Ji Su is a smart guy, and after pushing Luo Man back, he follows Luo Man's thoughts and rounds up what Luo Man just said. In everyone's opinion, Ji Su is very fair and rational, showing that people with disabilities can have their own love just like normal people, but the road to love is much more difficult than that of a normal person.

Even Qiao Lan could not find anything inappropriate in such a statement.

Only after this topic had passed did we revert back to the topic we had just discussed, that is, whether people with mental illnesses can have normal love. Because we had just analyzed a case, it was inevitable that when this question came up, people thought of the guy who threatened his girlfriend with suicide.

The natural conclusion that comes out is no.

Because of mental illnesses, they think nonsense, so they are paranoid, stubborn, extreme, overly possessive, and they are not as good as they want to be while making their other half miserable.

And the scariest part is that they don't even think it's a disease it's wrong.

This time the discussion was more intense than just now.

Some say that if you have a mental illness, the most sensible thing to do is to stay away in order to make life better for yourself, and those around you. Once you do stay together, what if the illness gets worse, or even if you have children later, will the healthy spouse complain if the children also have a genetic disorder? Will the child grow up and complain? Some say that the patients are already isolated from society, and there are very few friends who are willing to stay with them, not to mention their loved ones. How many people who know that they are sick are willing to get married with them? They are more eager than others to have a complete family.

Qiao Lan has not spoken.

From the beginning, Qiao Lan didn't think so, but the further she got into the discussion, the more she felt that it was weird and inexplicable.

What's the point of discussing this, at the end of the day can the discussion lead to a cure for people with mental illness, can it lead to fewer nasty incidents due to mental illness.

This discussion is not normal, and Ji Su, who has been steering the conversation downward, is even more abnormal.

Ji Su emphasizes over and over again what normal is trying to do again.

Qiao Lan really didn't want to make a simple discussion so conspiratorial, but with Ji Su's words poking at her heart, Qiao Lan couldn't help but wonder if he knew something and was targeting something.

She glanced up towards Ji Su, who was his usual gentle self.

Qiao Lan thought to herself that maybe she was overthinking it, and she gave herself one more possibility, as long as Ji Su didn't intentionally order her to speak.

Just as I was thinking so, Ji Su, who hadn't said anything just now, suddenly said, "Since it's a discussion then let's all talk, those who are talking keep talking, those who aren't keep not talking, and those who haven't spoken speak about their own views, Qiao Lan, the first one."

Qiao Lan's fingers tightened.

She closed her eyes and when she opened them again her eyes gazed straight at Ji Su and asked him, "What do senpai think is normal love."

Without waiting for Ji Su to say anything, Qiao Lan continued.

"I think the normal love is you love me, not political correctness, the "justice" for the relationship, itself is not a normal state of mind, the senior of this problem I think we can also extend a little bit, short do not deserve to have normal love do not have money do not deserve to have normal love do not look ugly do not deserve to have normal love I'm sorry, but I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that.

"Since the senior to say reality, then say one of the most realistic problem, normal people find a girlfriend are to house, car, ticket, even if the girlfriend does not want, mother-in-law that pass is not good, who is happy to daughter married to a person who has no money to suffer, normal people are not going to go through the days of low self-esteem and ridicule, but also will be met with someone who is not a good person to cheat the feelings of the loss of the body, will meet with a lot of difficulties, but also The first thing you need to do is to ask questions about who is not good enough for who. There are also problems with the examples the senior just gave, those people said that other people don't like them because they have disabilities, but there are many other factors that affect other people's impression of you."

"As for there is also the last discussion of mental illness will cause emotional tragedy, I think that mental illness will affect people in the emotional judgment, but the final cause of tragedy is not the disease but the correct concept, is a person to do people's bottom line. Continuously overcome physical or psychological obstacles to reach happiness, develop the right self-knowledge power, if the daily state of self-denial, only think I do not want to will not and dare not that naturally is not worthy of ......"

Qiao Lan was completely out of his element, even Ji Su didn't expect Qiao Lan to go in the direction he expected.

He originally wanted to take this opportunity to make Qiao Lan realize that there is no future for her and Tan Mo and that there will be no one to support her, but Qiao Lan simply won't budge.

Suddenly, he couldn't understand what Tan Mo had put in Qiao Lan's head to make her so paranoid that she could turn black into white.

What surprised him slightly was that after Qiao Lan finished speaking, several people actually nodded their heads in agreement, saying that Qiao Lan had a point, and that the question itself was not quite right, especially Luo Man, who also applauded wildly for Qiao Lan.

Ji Su frowned.

It's not supposed to look like this.

What's wrong with the idea that having a mental illness is inherently abnormal, and that such abnormal people can't have normal love?

Who here has ever met a truly mentally ill person, who understands better than he the tragedy that such a person can cause, who can't point the finger, but each one is nothing more than a piece of paper.

Some people are sensitive to the fact that today's discussion is filled with an indescribable flavor of gunpowder. Qiao Lan's speech was clearly directed at Ji Su, but Ji Su said nothing at the end, but asked everyone to go back and write a report on their experiences and hand it in.

Qiao Lan returned home, staring at the group file sent down from her computer, annoyed that she didn't want to write a single word.

She wants to find Ji Su to ask for clarification, to find out if it's what she thinks it is, but there's no proof, and what if Ji Su catches something and learns Tan Mo's secret?

Tan Mo came in from outside and asked what she was doing, Qiao Lan quickly forked the group file, "Thinking about how to tell the president about quitting the club."

What's there to get hung up on, there's actually an easier way.

If you quit, you will never see Ji Su again, and you won't be involved in the club, whether Ji Su intended to or not, you don't have to worry about anything as long as you quit.

Tan Mo from Qiao Lan reached across the chair to hold the man in place, and after several moments of silence, "Is something happening to you."

"No," Qiao Lan said, "I just think I like spending time with you more than going to clubs."

Tan Mo only wanted to rub her into his arms for a moment, and called out to her lowly in Qiao Lan's ear.

"Uh-huh," Qiao Lan responded.

"Let's get married when we graduate, okay."

Qiao Lan smiled, "It doesn't have to be graduation, let's see, the legal age for girls to get married is twenty, so I can get married when I'm a junior in college. Oops no, the legal age for boys is twenty-two, my boyfriend is even younger than me, so it seems better to wait for graduation."

Tan Mo: "......"

Suddenly I hate being younger than Qiao Lan.

Why is he only eighteen now?

Why is the legal age of marriage so unfair for men and women?

Tan Mo picked up the deliberately bad person from the chair and took him into the bedroom, amidst Qiao Lan's cries of alarm.

Close the door.

Accounting.

Two days later, when the members of the Psychology Club began to hand in their assignments, Ji Su idly looked at one email after another, and finally moved on to the one from Qiao Lan.

But when he opened the e-mail, Ji Su froze in his chair.

Instead of waiting for Qiao Lan's assignment, he waited for a letter of resignation from the club.

Qiao Lan's email, which was written in a modest manner and probably copied and pasted from the Internet, said that she was too stressed out from her studies to take care of the club's affairs, and that she was sorry but had no choice but to ask for the president's permission, and so on.

Once again, things went in a direction Ji Su hadn't expected, and Ji Su finally felt as if she had been too calm before.

He has done so much to make Qiao Lan understand, but Qiao Lan doesn't understand anything at all, she doesn't even know that she likes her.

Ji Su stared at the email for a long time, then suddenly shut down the computer and took out his cell phone, dialing Qiao Lan's number.

Qiao Lan had just gotten out of class and glanced at her cell phone, picking it up without too much surprise.

"Why did you quit the club all of a sudden," Ji Su asked over there.

"Senpai, I've made it clear in my e-mail."

Ji Su frowned irritably, "No need to talk about the scene, I'm talking about the real reason, and if I'm not mistaken, it's because of your boyfriend again."

"It was my fault for quitting in the middle of the day," Qiao Lan apologized sincerely, "but there is no school rule against quitting clubs, and why I quit has nothing to do with the seniors, so I can choose not to answer."

After a long moment of silence there, they finally said.

"Qiao Lan, I think we need to talk."